AS much as I like the word “cheap” and its variations — cheap-jack, cheapskate, el cheapo and the effervescent cheap and cheerful — I seem to have a hard time actually getting the word into a fashion article. “Use ‘inexpensive,’ ” I’m told.
TWO-DIGIT NUMBERS In this summer of the dress, three that leave wallets heavy: from Free People, $88 at Bloomingdale’s, above.
Forever 21, $25.
Beacon’s Closet in Brooklyn, $25.
Well, no. As the opposite of expensive, this choice only serves to make you feel less bad about the fact that you can’t afford the thing you want, and it seems as well a kind of outmoded exercise in virtue, like covering the eyes of a small boy when passing Victoria’s Secret. If cheap suggests something low and inferior, remind me what that is the next time I’m trying to find a parking place at Target or Kohl’s.
Lately I’ve been on a quest for the perfect cheap dress. It started when my sisters at Vogue declared this the year of the dress, and I thought I’d go them one better: the year of the cheap dress. If you’ve been downtown in the late afternoon, on Lower Broadway, or in one of those cheap-jack dress shops on Second and Third Avenues, you know exactly what I mean. Halters, tubes, tanks, tents, baby dolls, shirtwaists — not a single style goes unrepresented.
Though it’s pleasant to imagine yourself as Keira Knightley playing Isak Dinesen on safari in a Bottega Veneta dress, some of the nicest dresses I’ve seen on women in New York this summer don’t appear to have cost more than $100, and probably a lot less.
For many women $75 or $100 is a lot to spend on a single garment, and for others, despite a love of shopping, there’s a stiff reaction to the price of clothes. More and more the consumption of fashion involves ethical concerns, like fair-trade issues and environmental pollution. Simply: do we need all this stuff?
Sometimes a fashion looks good to us because we sense the wearer isn’t so invested in the outfit, in herself. A black cotton jersey dress with a high elastic waist and some shirring over the bust — like the one I saw recently on a 30-something woman crossing Madison Avenue near 50th Street — looks good because it is at once modest and immodest. It winks at the onlooker, but there’s no ironic game, as you might get, say, with a Marni dress. The good cheap dress doesn’t get tangled in irony.
I popped into DKNY on Madison. Funny: I almost never go to DKNY. I fear being mugged by ruffles. But I quickly found a black knit minidress, a blend of silk and cashmere, with a V neck and long sleeves I could push up. It was $195. Not bad but not exactly the cheapness I was aiming for, either. Still, I bought it.
At Barneys Co-op, my thoughts were further clarified. Who would pay $350 for a washed silk dress in a mottled beige print? It was cheap in concept and construction but not in price, and therefore seemed an insult. Whether I was looking at Theory, Marc by Marc Jacobs or the sad, pleading garments of little-known designers, it was hard to find a dress for less than $250. (This was, of course, before the summer sales started.) I had to unstitch myself from fashion to find the exquisite el cheapo number. I had to go downtown.
At Dirty Yellow Bastard and Necessary Clothing, both on Broadway, I found $39 India-silk scarf-dresses, $29 skimmy cotton shifts in every color, and a cute uniform-style shirtdress in bleached khaki by House of Freedom for $39. Unix, the big T-shirt emporium on Broadway, had some adorable striped cotton dresses for $49.50. But nothing tempted me.
The thing is, as soon as you start looking, you realize that the success of a dress or a flouncy top depends on your improvisational skills. The fit of the clothes makes you think the manufacturer stepped outside and used a lamppost for his fit model.
It helps to layer a dress over a T-shirt or wear it with a pair of leggings, to mask the cheesy quality of cotton/polyester fabric. (Have you noticed that, just as hotel breadbaskets get smaller, so cotton jersey gets thinner?) Lots of women finesse this snag with layering. I saw a young woman in SoHo in a long dress of black cotton eyelet, which she had left unbuttoned at the top. Under the dress she had on a filmy white T-shirt, its sleeves pushed up, and she had on white anklets and scuffed red pumps.
As I headed toward Mott and Mulberry, the quality improved. I saw some classic long-sleeved T-shirt dresses at Poppy for around $170. At Maria Cornejo, where the designer herself happened to be in the store and was helping the actress Tilda Swinton, there were her imaginative, breezy dresses in linen or silk from $300 to $500.
Fashion is a trade-off of private desire and social principles. If you’re shopping on the cheap, you have to accept the possibility that a $39 dress may have been made in a sweatshop. Equally, if you’re contemplating a $1,000 designer dress in plain cotton and can’t square the price and the value, it’s possible that the company arbitrarily set the price, knowing that’s what a customer will pay. Caveat emptor.
Even the middle ground isn’t always a sure thing, but it helps if there’s a clear spirit of design and value. The other day I ordered a matte jersey dress online from Victoria’s Secret — $65. El cheapo delight! The ultimate test for anything nowadays, cheap or dear, is whether it’s the real deal.












12 Months Before the WeddingKnow your budget. If you are not sure of your expenses, start creating a budget as soon as you can. It will help you in keeping within your limits and not overspending. Select your wedding venue. Begin shopping for your wedding bridal gown(s) and groom's suit. If you need to, you can always hire a wedding planner to help you organize your wedding - if you choose to, this would be a good time to select a wedding planner.
If you want to look your radiant best on your wedding day, start yourself on a facial regime. Also be sure to exercise regularly to keep yourself in shape. Watch what you eat. We tend to get a lot of unwanted calories through snacks and soft drinks. If you need to lose some weight, you can engage a fitness trainer to help you achieve your target weight.
5 Months Before the Wedding
On the Wedding Day Leave all the last minute issues to someone else. You don't need to pull out hairs on the very day you are supposed to be at your happiest. And enjoy yourself - you are Queen for the day.



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